Tantra is a spiritual science from ancient India and in its basic essence, very
similar to Taoism from China. Both involve balancing the male and female
energies to create harmony and have an ultimate goal of unity or spiritual
ecstasy, known as enlightenment. Tantra encourages one to explore every aspect
of life. So obviously the study of sexuality was included, not only included
but in fact revered.

Making love was seen as a gift to God. So there was no repression or guilt
attached to sex. It taught that when a man approaches his beloved he should
have a sacred feeling as if he were going into a temple. The art of sexual love
was the noblest of arts to study. As a young person in ancient India you could
go to the sacred temples and be taught lovemaking secrets by Darkas and
Darkinis, the priests and priestesses of love. The study of sexuality in the
west is very new, whereas relics of Tantric rituals date back nearly five
thousand years. So there is an incredible wealth of knowledge we can draw on
and use in our own lovemaking.

Tantra lovemaking can add to the ways you make love in 3 major areas:

Firstly: It gives you ways to reach heightened states of ecstasy and pleasure
beyond the realms of normal sex;

Secondly: It teaches you ways to open to more love so that your heart opens
even more to your partner and you remember how great it feels to be deeply,
passionately "in love."

Thirdly: it teaches Sacred Sex- ways to transform your lovemaking into a sacred
experience which will touch you on every level of your being, body, heart and
soul

A male can increase and expand the amount of ecstasy he can have and at the
same time increase the length of time he is able to make love so that his
partner has a chance of reaching higher states. Ejaculation control is an
essential skill to master so that during lovemaking, instead of ejaculating at
the first peak of energy which a lot of men do, they can learn instead to peak
with that energy and use techniques to spread that energy throughout the entire
body. Then as the urgency for ejaculation subsides, continue to make love again
until reaching another peak - much higher than the first peak and then he can
use techniques to peak and spread the energy again. As he Continues to do this,
reaching higher and higher peaks of ecstasy and at the same time his beloved is
feeling that energy and is being warmed up to higher orgasmic states.
Ejaculation control is a skill that can be learned like any other skill. With
the guidance of reading “sexual secrets for men: a man can learn to enjoy more
and more pleasure without the urgency to come.
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Posted by Spice Avenue at 4:31 PM