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Top 10 Tips To Give Women An Orgasm

Sunday, August 2, 2009 0 comments

Did you know that women can experience different types of orgasms and can even
have multiple orgasms? It’s true! Unfortunately, many women can go years
without an orgasm from their partner, and we all know how hard it is to satisfy
a woman.

Here are 10 tips to increase the chances she’ll reach climax, including the
secret to multiple orgasms:
Start outside the bedroom

Want to increase the chances she’ll orgasm? When was the last time you
surprised her with a little drawing, letter or flowers and sent them to her at
work? Believe it or not, creative and romantic gestures DO turn women on
because love and lovemaking are interconnected in a woman’s brain. Do this and
you can bet-your-bottom-dollar you’ll be doing more than just eating dinner
when she walks in the door! :)
Relax her

It’s very hard for women to orgasm if they are stressed. Give her a quick back
massage. Rub her shoulders, upper back and neck to melt away the tension.
Ignore the vagina

Did you know that prolonged foreplay actually increases the chances of her
coming? That’s right. By kissing, caressing and touching her LONGER, you’ll
build the sexual tension and often the anticipation will be very
powerful.
Change your focus

If you focus all your attention on the woman first, you’ll make love to her
much more passionately. Think about it! If you’ve finished first and decide to
help her come, you won’t have the enthusiasm and passion that’s needed to keep
her hot and turned on.
Tip to last longer

Of course the first step to help her reach orgasm is by not coming. The best
way I’ve found to not come is: Penetrate as normal and when you feel like
you’re about to come, simply move your hips in a circular motion (like swaying
a hula hoop) and wait until the “little guys” subside again. Now continue
pleasuring. :D
Don’t use lubricants

Women have a natural lubricant that fills the vagina when they’re turned on. By
using a product substitute, you’re only fooling yourself. Without products,
you’ll instantly know if things are working; but with them, you can never be
sure.
Never too much clitoris

Did you know that once you’ve stimulated the clitoris for some time, a little
thing called the clitoral hood will actually come out and cover the clitoris to
protect it from further direct stimulation? (And no, I’m not making this up!)
The point is, once the clitoris is fully stimulated, make sure you pleasure the
G-spot next, whether it be with your hand, tongue or penis.
Find and stimulate the G spot

The G-spot is a zone that feels like the roof of your mouth and is located
about 2 inches inside the vagina on the topside. (On the underside of her
stomach.) There are two basic ways you can pleasure the G. With your fingers by
doing a “come here” motion or with a love position that helps hit the
G-spot…
Use the best position

Not all love positions are made equal. The best one for women is the reverse
missionary (woman on top). This is probably the easiest position for a woman to
climax because she can control the friction to her clitoris and/or
G-spot.
Give her oral sex

The single best way to help a woman reach orgasm, even multiple orgasms, is by
going down on her (cunnilingus). While at first I didn’t believe it, countless
studies have been done to prove this fact. Oral sex is easier and much more
satisfying for women than intercourse is. Try the ABC’s with your tongue, ask
what she likes, and mix it up with lots of different movements! However be VERY
careful! With over 6,000 nerve endings in the clitoris, make sure you know
everything there is to know before poking your tongue around there, otherwise
it could be really painful and, even worse, spoil the mood.

So there you have it – 10 tips you can start using right away to give women the
most earth-shattering experience of their lives.

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of Lick by Lick, the complete
guide to giving women oral pleasure. Unfortunately, most men leave women
frustrated and disappointed after cunnilingus.

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